<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"><channel><title>Nadja Bester — blog + garden + social</title><link>https://nadjabester.com/subscribe/</link><description>Blog posts, digital garden notes and social stream updates.</description><atom:link href="https://nadjabester.com/all.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title>secular monasticism as infrastructure for community care</title><link>https://nadjabester.com/garden/secular-monasticism-as-infrastructure-for-community-care</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nadjabester.com/garden/secular-monasticism-as-infrastructure-for-community-care</guid><pubDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description>on tea monks, small rituals and active listening as everyday infrastructure for collective care.</description></item><item><title>purpose vs being and the burden of meaningful productivity</title><link>https://nadjabester.com/garden/purpose-vs-being-and-the-burden-of-meaningful-productivity</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nadjabester.com/garden/purpose-vs-being-and-the-burden-of-meaningful-productivity</guid><pubDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description>on burnout, inherent worth, and learning to exist without having to earn it through useful work.</description></item><item><title>solarpunk vs. cyberpunk</title><link>https://nadjabester.com/garden/solarpunk-vs.-cyberpunk</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nadjabester.com/garden/solarpunk-vs.-cyberpunk</guid><pubDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description>on extractive dystopias, cooperative futures, and the narrative challenge of imagining a world worth building.</description></item><item><title>hopepunk as resistance</title><link>https://nadjabester.com/garden/hopepunk-as-resistance</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nadjabester.com/garden/hopepunk-as-resistance</guid><pubDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description>on choosing care, community and stubborn hope as acts of resistance in a broken world.</description></item><item><title>sunset magic</title><link>https://nadjabester.com/stream/sunset-magic/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nadjabester.com/stream/sunset-magic/</guid><pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2026 11:10:00 GMT</pubDate><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://nadjabester.com/assets/stream/photos/5e4af13d2ed3f6025faa-1920.webp&quot; alt=&quot;Describe what the photo shows&quot; srcset=&quot;https://nadjabester.com/assets/stream/photos/5e4af13d2ed3f6025faa-640.webp 640w, https://nadjabester.com/assets/stream/photos/5e4af13d2ed3f6025faa-1280.webp 1280w, https://nadjabester.com/assets/stream/photos/5e4af13d2ed3f6025faa-1920.webp 1920w&quot; sizes=&quot;(max-width: 760px) 90vw, 720px&quot; width=&quot;1920&quot; height=&quot;1446&quot; loading=&quot;lazy&quot; decoding=&quot;async&quot; class=&quot;u-photo&quot;&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;the sky&#39;s being wizardy again&lt;/p&gt;
</description></item><item><title>IndieWeb-ifying redesign done!</title><link>https://nadjabester.com/stream/site-is-live/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nadjabester.com/stream/site-is-live/</guid><pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2026 07:44:44 GMT</pubDate><description>&lt;p&gt;and we&#39;re LIIIIIIVE! &#39;tis one giant leap for Nadjakind 🌐🌕&lt;/p&gt;
</description></item><item><title>Android publishing test</title><link>https://nadjabester.com/stream/android-publishing-test/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nadjabester.com/stream/android-publishing-test/</guid><pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2026 06:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description>&lt;p&gt;small post-social test from my phone: writing here, publishing on my site to /stream 💪&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;update: round-trip woooorks! 🥳&lt;/p&gt;
</description></item><item><title>a note from 16 October 2026</title><link>https://nadjabester.com/stream/hello-world/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nadjabester.com/stream/hello-world/</guid><pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2026 04:11:00 GMT</pubDate><description>&lt;p&gt;hello world from the other side of the social media hell-hole :)&lt;/p&gt;
</description></item><item><title>the art world and the psychiatric porn flex</title><link>https://nadjabester.com/blog/the-art-world-and-the-psychiatric-porn-flex</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nadjabester.com/blog/the-art-world-and-the-psychiatric-porn-flex</guid><pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description>on Vincent van Gogh, the art market, the tortured artist myth, and supporting living artists.</description></item><item><title>reality is a box office flop</title><link>https://nadjabester.com/blog/reality-is-a-box-office-flop</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nadjabester.com/blog/reality-is-a-box-office-flop</guid><pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description>on Digger, dark humour, fossil fuels, and finding resilience in the face of an ending.</description></item><item><title>the page, the whole page, and nothing but the page</title><link>https://nadjabester.com/blog/the-page-the-whole-page-and-nothing-but-the-page</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nadjabester.com/blog/the-page-the-whole-page-and-nothing-but-the-page</guid><pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description>on the page as an anchor for identity, creativity, reading, and making sense of being human.</description></item><item><title>IndieWeb Book Club October 2026: A Psalm for the Wild-Built by Becky Chambers</title><link>https://nadjabester.com/blog/indieweb-book-club-october-2026-a-psalm-for-the-wild-built</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nadjabester.com/blog/indieweb-book-club-october-2026-a-psalm-for-the-wild-built</guid><pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description>hosting October’s IndieWeb Book Club with Becky Chambers’ A Psalm for the Wild-Built, a short read exploring hopepunk, solarpunk, and what people need.</description></item><item><title>33 questions for the creative undead</title><link>https://nadjabester.com/blog/33-questions-for-the-creative-undead</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nadjabester.com/blog/33-questions-for-the-creative-undead</guid><pubDate>Mon, 05 Oct 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description>on creative DNA, recovering from burnout, and Twyla Tharp’s 33 questions for a creative autobiography.</description></item><item><title>Beethoven&apos;s Moonlight Sonata: life happens when you&apos;re busy making other plans</title><link>https://nadjabester.com/blog/beethovens-moonlight-sonata-life-happens-when-youre-busy-making-other-plans</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nadjabester.com/blog/beethovens-moonlight-sonata-life-happens-when-youre-busy-making-other-plans</guid><pubDate>Mon, 05 Oct 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description>on Beethoven&apos;s Moonlight Sonata, the heartache woven into its history, and its unexpected influence on music from Chopin to The Beatles.</description></item><item><title>PDA: reframing the autistic&apos;s profound demand for autonomy</title><link>https://nadjabester.com/blog/pda-profound-demand-for-autonomy</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nadjabester.com/blog/pda-profound-demand-for-autonomy</guid><pubDate>Sun, 04 Oct 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description>on reframing pathological demand avoidance as a profound demand for autonomy, agency, and neuroaffirmative self-determination.</description></item><item><title>ode to October, the loveliest month</title><link>https://nadjabester.com/blog/ode-to-october-the-loveliest-month</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nadjabester.com/blog/ode-to-october-the-loveliest-month</guid><pubDate>Fri, 02 Oct 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description>on October across hemispheres, C. Louis Leipoldt’s ‘Oktobermaand,’ and an English translation of a South African spring poem.</description></item><item><title>talking about the weather</title><link>https://nadjabester.com/blog/talking-about-the-weather</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nadjabester.com/blog/talking-about-the-weather</guid><pubDate>Fri, 02 Oct 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description>on weather talk as social glue, a grounding in natural forces, and why the last refuge of the unimaginative is anything but.</description></item><item><title>the finger-soothing perks of rest-reading</title><link>https://nadjabester.com/blog/the-finger-soothing-perks-of-rest-reading</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nadjabester.com/blog/the-finger-soothing-perks-of-rest-reading</guid><pubDate>Fri, 02 Oct 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description>on ergodic appetites, bedtime fiction, and why for a recovering perfectionist the easy things are the hard ones.</description></item><item><title>can I publish 100 posts in 13 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experimental literature, recovering from perfectionism, and why the easier reading experience can sometimes be the better choice.</description></item><item><title>music is a time travel device</title><link>https://nadjabester.com/blog/music-is-a-time-travel-device</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nadjabester.com/blog/music-is-a-time-travel-device</guid><pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description>how music activates memory, reconnects us with earlier selves, and creates portals across time, distance, and loss.</description></item><item><title>show your work</title><link>https://nadjabester.com/garden/show-your-work</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nadjabester.com/garden/show-your-work</guid><description>Documenting a creative process and making ideas findable through sharing.</description></item><item><title>Wabi-Sabi</title><link>https://nadjabester.com/garden/wabi-sabi</link><guid 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